Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Divorce. Show all posts

Saturday, September 1, 2012

Imaginations from the Spirit



It does not take a rocket scientist for people to look at the church today and see that it is in trouble.  There are four times as many churches closing as there are new ones starting.  There seems to be a lack of nerve and courage for many western Christians as the church continues to not disciple its own members much less produce the kind of environments that would disciple the community around them.  Where are the saints of God?  Where are the prophets and poets and dreamers of God?  It seems like when modern Christians read their Bible (if they read it at all), they lack imagination to engage the biblical text and the world around them.  I suspect there was more Christian imagination going on in the monestaries of the time people want to call "the dark ages" than the kind of stunted imaginations today that can't see what God is doing around them and fails to dream daring dreams for God.  So let me start with one example on how Christians need to "see" farther and go deeper when it comes to God's Word and how it works out in the world.

There is a incredible encounter between Jesus and the Pharisees over the Mosaic law and its meaning.  The whole issue concerns divorce and can people get divorced for almost any reason?  Jesus answers them in the nineteenth chapter of Matthew and tells them "what God has joined together, let no one separate."  There is so much more to say here but I want to focus on the follow-up question to Jesus about why did Moses give the permission to divorce like he did?  This was not just Moses words but a commandement given from God.  Jesus says in verse eight that "because of the hardness of your hearts, (God) permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so."

Jesus answers the question of why does God allow for divorce?  Because of the hardness of our hearts.  It is not God's will that people should get divorced, God hates divorce (check out the last chapter of the book of Malachi).  But doesn't God's Word give permission or says it's okay to do it?  Unless we understand the spiritual meaning of God's Word and read the Bible with spiritual eyes and not just eyes of flesh, we will miss both the intent and meaning of many Scriptures.  Some people get hung up on all the violence in the Bible, the brutal treatment of women at times, slavery, holy wars, and polygamy.  Why are these things in the Bible and why does it seems like the Bible condones or give permission for such things?  Because of the hardness of our hearts!  Until we start reading God's Word with out hearts and not just our heads, our hearts may stay hard and unchanged rather than being transformed by the heart of God.

Monday, February 20, 2012

I Married a Monster from Outer Space



HAVE WE LET SATAN INTO OUR MARRIAGE?

I love old sci-fi movies, especially the ones made in the 1950's and early 1960's. "I Married a Monster From Outer Space" was made in 1958 where aliens were posing as humans and trying to take over the world. It seems today that there are so many problems in Christian discipleship, that the divorce rate among Christians is either the same or worse than the world. How do we explain that? As the economy gets harder, marriages are failing at an alarming rate today, even among Christians. More and more Christians unfortunately are waking up to the persom they are sleeping next to and wondering if they did not marry a monster? Most couples simply don't fall out of love as much as they fall out of repentance!

It seems people are raising all kinds of questions today like when is it okay to get a divorce?, what about gay marriage?, and what about remarriage among Christians who have already been divorced? The problem is we often come up with the wrong answers on these questions because we do not even know what marriage is anymore? If Christian theologians are asking anew "What is the gospel?" then maybe even more we need to be asking, "What is Marriage?

Many marriages today do not even come close to following what is described in the Bible as something that nourishes, builds up, blesses, and where couples live sacrifically for one another. Divorce and remarraige have become such acceptable practices in the church today that questions the Bible asks concerning remarriage as possibly adultery or people not even planning to have children in their marriage are not even challenged anymore concerning what the Bible teaches on these issues.

When it comes to marriage, family, children and related issues, it seems like many Christians have forgotten the biblical truth that First Corinthians chapter seven says, "You Belong to God."